i just had such fun with mac before bed.tonight that i decided to go online..... i thought, darn his hair is so greasy, he must have a shower ..well we got half of him undressed and then he said, no way, i'm not getting in there. So i put him on the bath chair, but beside the sink and tried to wash his hair with a face cloth...well it was hilarious, and he said one funny thing about it after another, i can never remember the sequence or what he says but i became almost hysterical with laughter..and while undressing him , it was 'hey watch that now no messing around.....
Then when he got in bed after his 3 different things, pill patch and eyedrops, he said now you must leave me alone, stop messing around with me in bed...i know we're married - - we are married right. then he said what was i thinking - marrying you???then he makes a sweet face and says, it's o.k. i'm happy i married you.
.its so wonderful to have someone who makes me laugh so much. He then went on to talk about our sweet great granbaby Finley...he said she is wonderful, she knows how to scoot around on her bum so fast, she laughs and is the perfect little baby..Wasn't .she was great last night at the restaurant.?..he remembered - wow!... but didn't remember that he himself was rather out of it, and cranky, and didn't eat any supper even tho it was to celebrate his own birthday. But that's the way it is, and we who live with the Alzheimer's effects on our loved ones, have to know that we're the lucky ones, we are healthy, and try to be understanding, and helpful - also try to be cheerful and live in the moment..easier said than done.
But tonight i feel that we are both lucky, as we have had such a fun evening, and now hopefully a restful night...g'nite.
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