Guess who told me that...none other than dear mac...he cannot stand to stay with the person from CLSC, and really I truly feel responsible for these words....We were having a lovely time chatting with our grandson in town from Calgary, and his mom...when at 1;30, along came the woman to stay with him when i was planning to leave. This will never happen again, big mistake...even though i told him i'd be going out soon, he did not take it in, and for all of us to leave at the same time, well poor Mac "lost it"
His memory is the pits, but he remembers that he will not be left, he wants to go out on his own, or be left on his own, and that's that....he was angry - frustrated, and was physically aggresive, to me...and according to the lady from CLSC, she will definitely have to report this...also when i phoned home twice to tell him i was coming home, after one hour away...he said...you come home, and boy your days are numbered....my friend who was driving me home could hear this and was really upset..but I knew it was the frustration, that causes this anger..and he would once i was home, forget all about it...This is exactly what happened...after discussing with me that he did not want me to leave without him..would not on any account have someone stay with him...he soon was able to be distracted..and on our walk said...i seem to have slept a good deal this afternoon, well...really??? But did not go there. just left it be...but definitely we've got to change our method and for sure never have any one in visiting and then leave...somehow i will work out a better way...
This is not the greatest day for sure, I'm not sure just how i will handle next Wednesday, as for sure i am going out and for a longer time....I can put myself in his position, and have to think how I would want to be left...a few clues happened when we were talking, he said, i can understand that someone needs to be here to answer the phone, because i can't...also...he mentioned that I need help in the house now and again, so with that in mind ...maybe we can work out a better scenario..as anything would be better than today, g'nite.
No comments:
Post a Comment