This is not the first time that he has said 'you are not my wife, it has happened even a couple of years ago' but he is always secure in the knowledge that the someone - wife - best friend, girlfriend, mother figure, is there and constant...and today was no exception...as i mentioned the respite person from the CLSC came to give me a kind of break for 3 hours...usually i never take the whole 3 hours but decided to really go for it and did....when i returned he was so happy, thought i had completely fogotten him...his caregiver or respite person, was just trying to tell him that i would be returning shortly, when i showed up.
He kept saying, 'thought you had forgotten me, or forgotten to come home', thought you were never returning...i told him that is the problem with your memory, i told you when i left " not to worry i will be back in 3 hours - have a good visit with Bill"...but i'm sorry you forgot...it's hard for you, as you cannot remember...BUT, just know I will always be there for you, i will definitely come back to you.
The rest of the day, from 5p.m. when i returned to bedtime was perfect...we managed a walk between rain showers...funny mac was amazed at how warm it was, he was judging from the earlier downpour that it would be cold...as we walked along this evening, he was so thrilled with the warm sun, and blue sky...he said 'it's great let's take off our shoes and underwear'...that struck me as hilarious and i couldn't stop laughing...as he said ...o.k. you know i'm joking, 'well i should hope so...he is now sound asleep, so g'nite.
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